Like how can I help my girlfriend while shes pregnant? What all should I do for her? Im almost 16[my gf just turned 17 a week ago] and I know im really young to be a dad but I really want to make sure to do everything right. And I just want any advice you guys can come up with. Thanks. Advice about being a teenage father?
well, i was a teenage mother and when i wanted something i was very demanding and rude. So dont take that to offense its just hormones! Be kind to her, love her, make sure you tell her you love her every single day! Its very important to feel that the other person is not going to bail out. I have been with my finance for 4 years and we were together for 3 years when i had my daughter. Walk up behind her and surprise her with a kiss, you know the sweet kind gentle side of you should def. show now! And she will prob. have the baby blues which is alot of crying and being upset for no reason at all. It can also happen if you just as so much walk up and tell her you love her. Its from post part-um and i think you are a great guy for sticking with her! You already show her you are gonna stick around which is a great relief!Advice about being a teenage father?
that's awesome that you're stepping up and want to be involved. other teen dads need to be like you!
but to help:
go to the appointments
help with shopping and picking out the baby stuff
help set up the crib and stuff like that
help pick out names
earn money for the baby
ask if she needs help with anything
go to lamaze classes with her
be there for the birth and sign the certificate
last but not least: be involved in the child's life. married couples get to see their children whenever they want so tell her that you want to see the child everyday cause you wont want to miss a day of that child's life, work out of schedule and be a loving father to your child.
good on you for being there and being responsible. most guys around your age will deny and run away from the situation.
Just be there for her , she will probably have up and downs alot, which she will just someone to be around for.
Get her what she needs . she will need food , love and maybe a bit more food lol
you will figure out what you , your gf and the baby need as time passes along. you will learn from your mistakes .
good luck
Be there for her.
Help get ready for the baby.
Get a job to help support the baby.
Give her a massage when she complains about hurting.
If she is craving a certain food try to go get it for her, even if it is late at night.
Don't yell at her when she is moody.
And, if you want to surprise her with something that might bring her comfort I would suggest buying her a maternity body pillow.
this is a very big deal. the main thing is to make sure she doesn't feel alone. this is probably the worst thing you can do to her. be with her every step of the way and ya'll will be as close as ever. good luck being a daddy.
congratulations first off. its great your taking responsibility and not running away or pushing abortion.
hope you have a beautiful healthy baby.
just stay by her side. offer her massages. write her sweet love letters and always ask her ';what can i do?';
all you can do is make sure she knows that you are there for her.
go to her doctor visits
tell her shes pretty (that really helps!!)
and let her know that you will always be there.
Just be there for her. Go to doctor visits with her. Remember pregnancy is an emotional time so be patient and understanding.
well be there for her..go to her doctors appoinments..dont get her mad alot..let her get her things her way..trust me that matters..tell her how beautiful she looks with ur baby inside..tell her u lover her..mean it ofcourse
be right there with her. if she need anything try to do what you can to provide it. show your concern by going to the doctor with her.
Be with her all the time, help her out. Go to the doctors with her
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