I need advice about my mom she is driving me insane.?

My mother and I have never gotten along. She tries to control every aspect of my life, I am 19 years old. She wouldnt allow me to go away to school although that is what i truly wanted to do. She constantly yells and screams at me. She verbally abusing me constantly. I am at the point where i hate being near her. I am afraid that if this continues I will resent her later in life ( although i do already to an extent).I need advice about my mom she is driving me insane.?
If you are 19 years old, then you have the option of leaving home no matter what your mom says. I suggest you do what is necessary to start life on your own, which should allow you to live as you please. That will give your relationship with your mom a break, and you may discover a few things about yourself as well. If you don't like where you live now, it's time to find a place you do like. You might also take some time to consider if something you are doing is actually fueling the fire here. It generally takes to two people to fuel a disagreement. And although she may not be putting things in the best way, you might also consider if there is a valid reason behind what she says. Try ignoring the method of delivery, and focus on the objection she has in a calm manner. If she's basically right, but saying it wrong- attend to fixing the problem so she will have no reason to yell or scream. At the same time though, I suggest working towards life on your own.I need advice about my mom she is driving me insane.?
You are legally allowed to do anything you want, so why did you not go away to school? Are you dependent of her? In other words, do you provide for yourself or does she provide for you? If she provides for you, this might be why she feels she can lord it over you.





One thing is for sure: Don't ever let anyone abuse you, even verbally. Always remember you are a wonderful person, and don't let anyone let you believe differently. Take steps to become as independent as you can (ie: get a job, save money, look for apartments or look for a roommate, etc). Once you can make it on your own, move out. Once you both are out of each others way, your relationship is more than likely to improve.
well get your mom somehelp