Can i get some advice about being pregnant and whether to keep the baby.?

My thoughts right now is to keep the baby, but the question is up in the air still.Can i get some advice about being pregnant and whether to keep the baby.?
I think you have already made your mind up:) You don't need our adviceCan i get some advice about being pregnant and whether to keep the baby.?
no one can make that decision but you. you don't have many details about your case but i notice most people are assuming you mean abortion. i was assuming you meant adoption? either way it's your choice whether or not to keep the baby. it is a HUGE responsibility and having a support system is an absolute must either way. just don't listen to other people and follow your own heart. people told me i couldn't go back to school when my children were small but i did. life isn't always easy and i'm sure you already know that no one is standing around with the answer on a silver tray. my children have been a huge blessing in my life. there's times it has been really hard. but it's all been worth it.
You need to decide whether you are ready for the huge change a baby will bring. It is completely life altering. If you are not ready there are many parents waiting to adopt. I have a cousin who is adopted and I think his birth mother made the right decision. She was young, in school. It was an open adoption and she saw him quite a bit in the beginning but she has now resumed her normal life. Everything would have been different if she had kept him. She was very brave, and he is where he should be.





Children change everything, so make sure you are ready.
My advice is that you will know instantly what you will want to do as soon as that baby is born.





When he/she starts kicking you will start to feel more like a mum and it will suddenly dawn on you just how real it is.





I speak from experience. I had an abortion at 17. I deeply regret it but it was just the only thing I could do at the time. It will never leave me. I am lucky enough to be with a loving partner now and pregnant with twins and they have recently started kicking and it is the most wonderful thing you could imagine! Especially when you are the only one who knows about it before anyone else can feel the movement. It makes you feel so special!





Imagine that and then imagine holding your baby in your arms. You'll know then what you want to do and I'm guessing you'll keep the baby as the bond between you both will be so strong by that point!





All the best hun, if you need to talk, just go to my profile and send me an email or email me on valleysrabbit88@yahoo.co.uk
being pregnant is the greaest blessing ever!


l am 39 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child, and l wouldn't have it any othe way.





l don't know your circumstances, but if you don't have family support or anything like that, there is that many services out there that will help you.


and if you are not emotionally ready please think about adopting the baby out rather than go anywhere near having an abortion,





hope l have been some help, and good luck!!
I AM A TEENAGE MOM..I HAVE A LOT OF NEGATIVE REMARKS FROM THE SOCIETY BUT I REMAINED STRONG...I DON'T KNOW IF GETTING PREGNANT IS A MISTAKE YOU MAKE..BUT AS A HUMAN BEING YOU HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE WITH EACH AND EVERY ACTION YOU MAKE.





TO ALL THOSE THE PEOPLE OUT THERE,SO WAT IF I'M A TEENAGE MOM OR OTHER GIRLS ARE.EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKE...YOU HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE AND ANSWER FOR IT...AT LEAST WE ARE RATHER THAN PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO ABORT THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD AND WORST...MOST OF THEM ARE NOT TEENAGERS BUT ADULTS!!!!





Girl,the baby have already made the choice to be your child...give the baby a chance to live...





Take Care alrite...
i think you should keep the baby i can neva support an abortion bcos with everytime you see some one else baby you will remember the one you throw away. ask yourself this question yea if you were aborted will you still be alive? everyone has the right to leave
we need more. Why would you give up the baby? How would you feel/cope if you did?





After carrying a baby for 10 months and then seeing/holding it after it's born I don't get how anyone can give it up.
Keep the baby. You have no right to take a life. if it isn't meant to be then it won't be but a child is a wonderful thing.
Keep the baby if you think you can do it! I just had my first a month ago! And I love her to death!
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Hmmm, suck it in a sink or not? What to do?





Have you even considered letting someone adopt this baby and give it the life it deserves?





You are considering slaughtering human life, but not waving bye bye?





Cyn doesn't get how people can give up a baby, because she cannot think about anyone else's needs above her own, including her children.