I just went through a terrible breakup. I'm a 19-year-old female going through depression %26amp; lonliness. i was with my boyfriend for 1 yearCan anybody give me advice about recooperating?
You need to keep yourself busy and try not to think about it at all. Go out and try to meet new people. The worst thing that you can do is dwell on it and not be proactive about where you are right now...you should try your hardest to move on.Can anybody give me advice about recooperating?
First off, do not let anyone tell you that your age is making this any easier! You just got your heart broken. It is a s serious at 19 as at 30! Your heart still feels this pain!
I know it is not wise to rush into a new relationship but it doesn't mean you have to hide away from the world. Find some good supportive friends. Do things with them. Get a new outfit or haircut. Do something just for yourself. It won't get the bf back but it will make you feel a little better about yourself. Oh, and also find a good friend who will let you cry and rant. Get it all out.Take time to mourn. It is the death of one set of dreams and hopes and it needs to be mourned.
Take Care of yourself and know many of us have survived this...I know I have...
It is easy. Find the right GUYY.
Sweetie U R still SO young.
U have Ur whole life ahead of U even though it may not seem like it right now.
My best advice to U is to surround Urself with family and friends.
Stay busy, that will occupy Ur time and U wont have much time to think about Ur ex. I know that night time is probably the worst, so call a friend on the phone or get a good book to read.
U now how have time to reflect on what went wrong in Ur relationship and reguardless of who's fault it was U can still learn from it. Stay single awhile and give Urself time to build Ur confidence up again.
Remember any guy would be lucky to have U and U keep that mind set. U have alot to offer and when the right guy comes along U will know what NOT to do in the next relationship.
Give Urself some time to get back to Ur old self again, do something for U. Get a manicure or a pedicure or get Ur nails done or buy a new outfit.
Celebrate the wonderful person that U are and when Ur ready, GET BACK OUT THERE.
Good Luck dear, I know U'll be fine.
Get back out there.....he was not worth it.
When you meet somebody new you will be on top of the moon again.
my advice is talk to someone. If you tried this then find someone else. I was with someone for almost 10 years and had two children by him, after he tried to kill me he left me. It took three years for me to completly get over it and to be honest I am still hurting over the whole thing. When you get up in the morning get in the shower wether you need one or not just do it. When you are all clean look in the mirror and repeat '; I am perfect the way i am. I need only mself to get throgh a tough day'; five times three times aday. Once in the morning once in the afternoon and one more time befor you go to bed. Keep telling yourself this everyday and do not forget to do this. Keep doing until you relize you it is the truth and then you will be able to recoop.
Good luck and I hope you do well. it will get better
ur young move on
Best advice here is to get back into the swing of it as soon as possible. That means, meeting up with new people. Don't delay. Get out there. Make it work again. No matter what!
this can be easily done by realizing your interests in life and joining a new group that will share those same interests as you .
No sense moping about and causing the symptons of depression to gain control of you.
Remember, depression usually results when our own expectations of what everyone around us thinks of us. We can never be perfect to everyone or anyone either. We take it upon ourselves to deal with life as best as we can , so moving on will help that in a big way.
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