okay weve been dating for 3 months and i notice he never brushes his teeth and always wears the same outfit in one week. All he does is smoke weed. He wont work or go get his ged. He just wants to get high and not take a bath. but hes sweet. should i leave him?I need some advice its about my boyfriend soon to be ex!?
YES! Gross.I need some advice its about my boyfriend soon to be ex!?
YES!!!!!.....get out immediately. if you don't, you will regret it. it doesn't matter that he is sweet, he is stuck in the mindset of an immature 16 year old. and it doesn't sound like he will change. smoking weed, you should have left as soon as you found out. it sounds like you could do a whole lot better. and he doesnt seem to care about his future, do you want to be a part of that? he wont even get his ged. and there is not a lot of successful futures that will accept that. unless he wins the lottery, i dont see any successful future with him. i think you should move on to someone who is worth what you have to give.
Honey PLEASE listen. I had a EX JUST like him. Sweet, loyal as all hell, wouldn't bathe, wouldn't get his GED, wouldn't get a job. except he did meth too and smoked weed, the boy could NEVER be without a buzz ok. I waited 6 YEARS of my life for him to get better. Guess what, we have been broke up for over a year now and guess what he is doing? He is in the same place I left him on the same couch, still no job, still getting high. Hmm do YOU think I made the right choice? P.S- I know I already answered but I really hope you consider my advice I don't want to see someone make the same mistake I did. I tried talking to him about it and everything it never got better all he cared about is getting high and being how he was. If you tried talking to him and still nothing chances are you are heading down same path I did. If someone REALLY loves you they will not be that selfish. Think about it.
Think about this, is he clean enough for you, and can he support you later on in life if you end up marrying this guy. I mean feelings count too, but hey, you have to look at everything.
It's ultimatum time.
Get a job, and for god sakes take a bath, or u and i will cease to exist in the same alphabet.
AND PUT DOWN THE GRASS YOU HIPPIE!
if u think u cant go thru with it then yes....
y stay in a relationship in which u kno ur not comfortable with.....
or u may try to help him change to a more suitable person. but only of he is willing to change.
if ya want to end up like him, and not get educated than stay and have fun getting high
if he wont change for you then leave, ew he seems gross
if it affects you then yeah.
yeah you should break up with him.....
yes (sweetness is not enough)
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